Monday, February 9, 2009

His Needs/Her Needs

This week let's all concentrate on our spouses need for admiration. Men especially have this need, but wives really appreciate being admired too.

Even if you feel your spouse is not especially admirable at this time, treat him or her as if they were. Begin treating and serving your spouse like a king or queen, just like a VIP.

Verbally - Compliment - exchange complaints for compliments. (Give it a GOOD try at least! :) )
Compliments are like magnets. It can draw you closer to one another.

Intellectually - Ask your spouse for help or advice in areas that he/she is knowledgeable or has much wisdom.

Physically - What could you do that would be a physical help to your spouse? Does he/she need help with their laundry, dishes, etc. Would he/she like you to put your "stuff" away? (make-up off the counter, dishes in the dishwasher)

Showing admiration goes a long way in showing your spouse how much you love them. It puts needed deposits in their LOVE BANK!

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